Pandemic restrictions meant we hadn’t been able to cross the border to see half of our family; for a time pre vaccine, we couldn’t even leave Vermont without quarantine on return. Like much of the world we were restless. Over the next few months our plans shifted from a year living in Canada to a few months living in Canada and then a series of adventures and trips. All those things we said we would do one day – the pandemic and illness in our family had given urgency to those plans: the time to do the big thing is now.
As is her wont, Liz started to prepare by reading every book she could on the subject. Clearly we are not the first family to put our life on hold for a year (okay, 10 months) and travel. Most of those travel books start with the WHY of it all. For some this idea is crazy, for others, inspiring.
Here is our why:
- Craving adventure after a few years of lockdown
- Missing family, many of whom we had been separated from for years
- Escaping the political nonsense of the US
- Showing our kids the wider world, exposing them to different cultures and languages
- Enjoying time as a family while our kids still think we are cool
- Taking a mid-life pause from work and reflecting on our paths and goals
- Reassuring ourselves and our kids that you are not stuck on one path and that radical change is okay (if a little scary at times!)
LIZ:
As we planned and reflected, it was important that we all contributed to ideas of where to go. Our initial list was long and detailed but we have (roughly) winnowed it down. Some adventures – like Alaska and Cuba – we may save for another time.
Here is our rough itinerary:
- Nova Scotia for 3 1/2 months with a side quest to Prince Edward Island
- Head down the east coast with stops in NYC and DC to have Thanksgiving with Liz’s mom
- A meander through the South and the Southwest with stops to see friends in Texas and a few other key tourist attractions
- Christmas in Phoenix, AZ with Liz’s Dad
- Head to Costa Rica for a month of surfing, zip lining, Spanish lessons, and volunteering
- Return to the US and continue our journeys through the Southwest and head up the West Coast ending with family in British Columbia and passing through where both children were born (Othello, WA and Victoria, BC)
- Head back east along a northern route, stopping at Wall Drug among other highlights from Liz and Jo’s cross country honeymoon trip back in 2009
- Launch over to Europe for April in Paris, scotch in Scotland, and May in Latvia
- Return home in late May so the kids can graduate with their classes
TREVOR:
When I heard about the big year I thought "oh thats just talk, but when I saw mom reading "journeys of a lifetime"I thought "is this real?"And when we got on the road... "oh no, what are we doing..."
MARGARET:
I remember how this trip began: with a crazy idea to live in Canada for a year. Much like Trev, I didn't believe it at the time. However, as the thought evolved, I really began to wonder. Soon it was official: we'd be going on a trip -- and we'd be going everywhere! (Well, not really, but that's how it seemed at the time.) For a while, my first thoughts weren't the trip itself, but this: How am I going to tell my friends?
When I finally did tell one of them, she persuaded me to tell others, and soon my whole class knew. But it didn't really seem real until school was out, and even then, it took several weeks for me to fully come to terms with this whole thing. My final weeks of camp came and went; it was almost time. A week of frantic packing later, our black minivan pulled away from the house one last time, and we were off...going, going, going, gone.
JOHANNES:
I'm excited to travel with this wild and wonderful group of human beings. I love that we can take some time to reflect and decide what matters to us and where we can "put our good, to do the most." I am especially excited to see family we have missed and go on adventures we have always talked about. Carpe Diem!
Leave it up to Margaret to write an entire novel to explain how she is feeling! -IN
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